“…All of a sudden, I am unaware of these afflictions eclipsed by glory. And I realize just how beautiful You are, and how great Your affections are for me. Oh how He loves.” –John Mark McMillan
The other day I got into a fight with a butterfly. No, it isn’t as silly a sight as it sounds…well not quite. I was doing some evening gardening and had the garage door open. When I went in to get a rake I noticed a beautiful butterfly fluttering around, trapped inside the garage.
Normally I wouldn’t think too much of this, and have from time to time even pinned butterflies. I am not some overly-indulgent animal lover. But this time I felt a little bit of sadness for the poor creature. To her, she was trapped in some inescapable cave. I took pity on her. I decided it was female, not because of some butterfly expertise, but because I simply cannot imagine a male butterfly, though I know they must actually exist. So with the creature properly personified, I was committed to action.
I grabbed the ladder with the intent of reaching up to the ceiling and gently cupping her in my hand, then releasing her outside. But just at the instant my plan was about to work, she deftly avoided my grasp in the way that only bugs and small children can. This set off a several minute period of me moving the ladder and repeating the procedure repeatedly with utter futility. The butterfly did not appreciate any of my efforts.
As I was pondering the absurdity of the situation and how terrifying this must be to the butterfly, I watched the butterfly frantically moving from ceiling to wall to ceiling and narrowly escaping multiple spider webs. Convinced that I was beaten in the summer butterfly campaign of 2010, I surrendered and retreated to my house in defeat.
In the morning, the butterfly was far from the front of my mind as I opened the door to get in my car, and was surprised to see the butterfly sweep out of the door into the open air. She fluttered about low to the ground above my flower bed, and then climbed into the sky with the semi-inebriated flight style that butterflies seem to enjoy. I smiled. She was free.
So many times, I feel like that butterfly. I sit in situations, toxic and painful, sometimes afraid to move, and bumping around my panic, avoiding traps both real and imagined. I desperately want to find the light, to feel free and supported by fresh air and freedom. I long for hands, caring and immense, to carry me to such a place.
I believe in those hands. I believe that God frantically climbs ladders and reaches for me, but it is often difficult to tell those loving hands from giants bent on my destruction. I know he loves me. I pray for the doors to open so I can sweep into the sky with a clumsy sense of freedom. But right now, I just feel small. And maybe if I quiet myself enough and don’t focus on the walls, I can just feel His hands envelop me.
Hold me and carry me. I long for your immense gentleness to surround me and take me where you will. I miss those hands, and I fear you will give up and let me bump around my prison in the dark. You promise to strengthen your people and give them peace (Psalm 29). Carry me. Let me fly again in your light. -Ryan