As I have prepared for Mother’s Day this year, my thoughts have turned to flowery gifts and cheesy cards. But in a way, the whole Mother’s Day card idea seems to be both a little impersonal, and overly discrete. We buy a card with a flowery picture where some guy in an office has written something that appeals to the broadest audience possible, but we are supposed to pretend it is the sentiment of our innermost selves. Often times we say something like, “I read this, and it captured my exact feelings for you.” These are great for those who don’t have much of an ability to express themselves.
At the same time, we share these “deep feelings” with only the mother we are so proud of. So the card that says, “I want the whole world to know how special you are,” is sealed tightly in an envelope and addressed only to that one Mom that you want the whole world to know about.
So, this Mother’s Day I want to do something a little different: instead of buying a card and sending it off for only my Mom to read, I’m going to do my best to capture my thoughts for my Mom in my own words and leave it out in the open for the whole world to see. From this point on, I’ll be addressing my Mom directly in first-person, but everyone is invited along because I believe that my Mom is truly worth celebrating.
When I think back to all of the formative moments of my life, you are always there, front and center. Every award, every performance, every skinned knee, you were there. When I fell down, it was you who picked me up. When I lost my course and aim, you helped me turn.
I remember you at every band performance, musical, and sports game.
I remember your strength in moments where it seemed like you and I against the whole world.
You taught me that if you lie about something, you might not get to go to the Halloween party.
You taught me that there is nothing much better than sitting on the counter on a Saturday morning and making breakfast together, and that
Bugs Bunny is always funny no matter how many times you’ve seen it.
You taught me that there is nothing more healing than the song “You are My Sunshine.”
You helped me see that amazing wonders of nature like Giant Sequoias are more than just trees. They are the very fingerprints of God.
Through the good times and the bad, you’ve always been there and always persevered. You’ve taught me everything I know, and I am proud to be your son. Everything I have and everything I am is because of you. I’ll always love you. Thank you Mom.
Just as a fun little bit from history, I was able to get an old picture of my mom from some of her professional dancing days. She has always been really light on her feet.